THE SPECIAL HUMAN-ANIMAL BOND – AND ENSURING TENDER LOVING CARE (TLC) AT CHRISTMAS

Pets, or companion animals, have been with us since the dawn of civilisation. Dogs have been our friends for over 50,000 years. Our association with cats has been shorter, about 5,000 to 7,000 years. When humans began domesticating wolves thousands of years ago, it was the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
Many dog lovers say their pets seem to know what their masters are thinking. A study published by the American Association for the Advancement of Science suggests that this line of thought might be at least partially right. Something about the process of domestication seems to have given dogs the ability to “read” certain human social behavioural patterns — something wolves and even chimpanzees cannot do. Some scientists argue that, at least sociologically speaking, dogs (not chimps) are more like humans.

Chimpanzees may share many of our genes, but dogs have lived with us for so long that they offer a good model for understanding human social behaviour.
Companion animals are just that: our companions. Since domestication, cats and dogs have lived in close contact with humans, and we must co-exist peacefully and lovingly. And we are lucky! Any TLC which we give a companion animal, we get it back many times over.
Experts have proven that, in addition to being fun and fulfilling, the special friendship between animals and humans actually can benefit a person’s health. When an affectionate greeting from your dog at the end of a hard day seems to lift your spirits and ease tensions, it is not just your imagination. Your pet is good for you, both physically and mentally.
That simple act of petting a cat or dog consistently lowers the blood pressure of heart patients.
Many studies have since been embarked upon which show the significance of pets in our lives. Researchers say that such studies are like exploring a new frontier, and they are only touching the tip of the proverbial iceberg. The fact of the matter is (what we pet owners have always known) that the presence of pets simply makes you behave in a more relaxed and open manner. Pet owners are happier, smile more readily, communicate better, all of which lead to improved general health — our own.
The loyalty and friendship (very pronounced in the case of dogs) that pets offer to us humans are many times more valuable than any bit of TLC we give to them. Irrespective of how we associate with animals: whether as pets, or for the show arena, or as working dogs (hunters, guards, pullers of sledges, or rescuers, etc.), expressions of love have to be offered to them. This love of animals must not be based solely on emotion; rather, it must be an educated love.
For example, we may be judgmental of persons who starve their dogs, while we commit an equally hurtful act by overfeeding ours, especially at Christmas. Or we may feel compelled during the festive season to bathe them very often, or feed them chocolates and spices. You may well consider such acts as TLC on your part, but I can assure you that they are not, and are in fact inimical to the pets’ health.
One Senator George Vest wrote, in 1870, a tribute to a dog. I share it with you as a reminder of that special human–animal bond and the joys that we encounter, not just at Christmas, but 365 days a year from the love and devotion of our faithful furry companion.
“The one absolute unselfish friend that man can have in this selfish world, the one that never deserts him, the one that never proves ungrateful or treacherous, is his dog. A man’s dog stands by him, in prosperity and in poverty, in health and in sickness. He will sleep on the cold ground, where the wintry winds blow and the snow drives fiercely, if only he may be near his master’s side. He will kiss the hand that has no food to offer, he will lick the wounds and sores that come from an encounter with the roughness of the world. He guards the sleep of his pauper master as if he were a prince. When all other friends desert, he remains. When riches take wings and reputations fall to pieces, he is as constant in his love as the sun in its journey thru the heavens.”
Please enjoy this festive season with your family, which includes your companion animals. Please continue to dissuade your friends and other family members from using squibs and other explosive devices in any environment shared with pets.
Merry Christmas!